Finding the right confirmation gift can be a challenge. The confirmand is on the cusp of adulthood, and the gift should reflect that—something that feels grown-up but is still appropriate for a teenager. Here is our guide to confirmation gifts in all price ranges, with specific suggestions and price ranges.
What do you give as a confirmation gift?
The tradition of giving money as a confirmation gift is still widespread, but more and more people are choosing to give a physical gift—either on its own or along with a cash amount. The advantage of a physical gift is that it is remembered longer. Money is spent quickly, but a piece of jewelry, a bag, or a pair of sunglasses can stay with the confirmand for years. A physical gift also shows that you’ve taken the time to find something that suits this particular confirmand—it makes an impression.
Jewelry for the confirmand
Jewelry is the most classic confirmation gift after money. Choose something simple and timeless that the confirmand can wear both now and ten years from now. Avoid overly trendy designs that quickly feel outdated—if you go for classics, the confirmand will enjoy the gift for many years to come
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Earrings
Earrings are popular for both boys and girls. Small hoops or studs in gold or silver are safe choices that work for both everyday wear and special occasions. Hoops in different sizes can be stacked, and studs in a simple design go with any outfit. Prices start at 120 kr.
Necklaces
A necklace with a discreet pendant is a personal gift. Letter pendants or simple gold chains are popular choices for confirmation because they feel personal without being too childish. A necklace of the right length looks great under a shirt or over a dress. From 180 kr.
Rings
A ring is a symbolic gift for confirmation. Signet rings are classic and gender-neutral—they have a timeless quality that allows the confirmand to wear them well into adulthood. Thin bands in gold or silver suit everyone and can be stacked with other rings. From 150 kr.
Vases as a lasting gift
It may sound surprising, but a vase is actually an excellent confirmation gift. The confirmand typically receives many flowers on the day, and a beautiful vase gives them a place to stand. Later, the vase becomes part of the decor in the dorm room or first apartment. A vase is a gift that marks the transition from child to young adult—it signals that one now has a home of their own to decorate. From 180 kr.
Stylish Sunglasses
A pair of quality sunglasses is a gift that teenagers actually use—perhaps more than anything else. Choose classic styles like Wayfarers or Aviators that won’t go out of style in six months. Sunglasses are one of the gifts the confirmand takes with them out into the world—on trips, to festivals, to the beach, and in everyday life. High-quality sunglasses protect the eyes and last a long time, unlike cheap alternatives that break quickly. From 300 kr.
Bags for the young adult
A leather or canvas bag is a practical and stylish gift. Think crossbody bags, clutches, or small backpacks in neutral colors like black, brown, or olive green. A good bag is something the confirmand will grow with rather than out of. Choose a classic design and sturdy materials that can withstand daily use. A leather crossbody bag works for high school, college, and beyond. From 400 kr.
Price Guide: Confirmation Gifts
Under 200 kr.
Earrings, studs, simple rings, small vases. A nice addition to a cash gift. Many choose to give a few hundred kroner in an envelope along with a small physical gift.
200–500
Necklaces, sunglasses, ceramic vases, bracelets. Great gifts that can stand alone or be paired with a smaller cash gift. This price range is just right for most relationships.
Over 500 kr.
Bags, jewelry sets, expensive sunglasses. For close family members such as grandparents, godfathers, or godmothers. Here, you’re giving a gift the confirmand will remember and use for many years.
Gifts for a confirmand boy vs. a confirmand girl
Many of our gifts are gender-neutral. Jewelry like signet rings, simple chains, and hoops work for everyone. Sunglasses and bags as well. If you want to target a specific gender: boys often appreciate sunglasses and signet rings, while girls typically prefer earrings and necklaces. But generalizations rarely hold true—get to know the confirmand and choose accordingly. If in doubt about size or style, ask the parents.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much should you give for a confirmation gift?
As close family (grandparents, parents): 500–2,000 kr. As distant family or a friend: 200–500 kr. As parents: often a larger gift such as a phone, a trip, or a piece of furniture, plus a personal gift. The amount varies greatly depending on the relationship and financial situation—give what you want to and can afford.
Should you give money or a gift for a confirmation?
Both are welcome. A combination is popular: a cash amount along with a physical gift like jewelry or sunglasses offers the best of both worlds. The confirmand can use the money for whatever they dream of, while the physical gift will be remembered for years to come.
When is confirmation in Denmark?
Confirmations take place in April and May. Most confirmations are held on weekends during this period. Buy the gift well in advance—popular sizes and designs can sell out during confirmation season.
